Friday, July 08, 2005
Love is . . . [08-Jul-2005]
Thursday, July 07, 2005
Love is . . . [07-Jul-2005]
Wednesday, July 06, 2005
Love is . . . [06-Jul-2005]
Tuesday, July 05, 2005
Love is . . . [05-Jul-2005]
Monday, July 04, 2005
A sad thing in life is . . .
- Anonymous
Love is . . . [04-Jun-2005]
Sunday, July 03, 2005
Ten Commandments for Peace of Mind
Ten Commandments for Peace of Mind
1. Do Not Interfere In Others' Business Unless Asked
Most of us create our own problems by interfering too often in others'
affairs. We do so because somehow we have convinced ourselves that our way
is the best way, our logic is the perfect logic and those who do not conform
to our thinking must be criticized and steered to the right direction, our
direction. This thinking denies the existence of individuality and
consequently the existence of God. God has created each one of us in a
unique way. No two human beings can think or act in exactly the same way.
All men or women act the way they do because God within them prompts them
that way. There is God to look after everything. Why are you bothered? Mind
your own business and you will keep your peace.
2. Forgive And Forget
This is the most powerful aid to peace of mind. We often develop ill
feelings inside our heart for the person who insults us or harms us. We
nurture grievances. This in turn results in loss of sleep, development of
stomach ulcers, and high blood pressure. This insult or injury was done
once, but nourishing of grievance goes on forever by constantly remembering
it. Get over this bad habit. Believe in the justice of God and the doctrine
of Karma. Let Him judge the act of the one who insulted you. Life is too
short to waste in such trifles. Forgive, Forget, and march on. Love
flourishes in giving and forgiving.
3. Do Not Crave For Recognition
This world is full of selfish people. They seldom praise anybody without
selfish motives. They may praise you today because you are in power, but no
sooner than you are powerless, they will forget your achievement and will
start finding faults in you. Why do you wish to kill yourself in striving
for their recognition? Their recognition is not worth the aggravation. Do
your duties ethically and sincerely and leave the rest to God.
4. Do Not Be Jealous
We all have experienced how jealousy can disturb our peace of mind. You know
that you work harder than your colleagues in the office, but sometimes they
get promotions; you do not. You started a business several years ago, but
you are not as successful as your neighbor whose business is only one year
old. There are several examples like these in everyday life. Should you be
jealous? No.Remember everybody's life is shaped by his or her previous
Karma, which has now become his destiny. If you are destined to be rich,
nothing in the world can stop you. If you are not so destined, no one can
help you either. Nothing will be gained by blaming others for your
misfortune. Jealousy will not get you anywhere; it will only take away your
peace of mind.
5. Change Yourself According To The Environment
If you try to change the environment single-handedly, the chances are you
will fail. Instead, change yourself to suit your environment. As you do
this, even the environment, which has been unfriendly to you, will
mysteriously change and seem congenial and harmonious.
6. Endure What Cannot Be Cured
This is the best way to turn a disadvantage into an advantage. Every day we
face numerous inconveniences, ailments, irritations, and accidents that are
beyond our control. If we cannot control them or change them, we must learn
to put up with these things. We must learn to endure them cheerfully
thinking, "God wills it so, so be it." God's plan is beyond our
comprehension. Believe in it and you will gain in terms of patience, inner
strength and will power.
7. Do Not Bite Off More Than You Can Chew
This maxim needs to be remembered constantly. We often tend to take more
responsibilities than we are capable of carrying out. This is done to
satisfy our ego. Know your limitations. Why take on additional loads that
may create more worries? You cannot gain peace of mind by expanding your
external activities. Reduce your material engagements and spend time in
prayer, introspection and meditation. This will reduce those thoughts in
your mind that make you restless. Uncluttered mind will produce greater
peace of mind.
8. Meditate Regularly
Meditation calms the mind and gets rid of disturbing thoughts. This is the
highest state of peace of mind. Try and experience it yourself. If you
meditate earnestly for half an hour everyday, your mind will tend to become
peaceful during the remaining twenty-three and half-hours. Your mind will
not be easily disturbed as it was before. You would benefit by gradually
increasing the period of daily mediation. You may think that this will
interfere with your daily work. On the contrary, this will increase your
efficiency and you will be able to produce better results in less time.
9. Never Leave The Mind Vacant
An empty mind is the devil's workshop. All evil actions start in the vacant
mind. Keep your mind occupied in something positive, something worthwhile.
Actively follow a hobby. Do something that holds your interest. You must
decide what you value more: money or peace of mind. Your hobby, like social
work or temple work, may not always earn you more money, but you will have a
sense of fulfillment and achievement. Even when you are resting physically,
occupy yourself in healthy reading or mental chanting of God's name.
10. Do Not Procrastinate And Never Regret
Do not waste time in protracted wondering " Should I or shouldn't I?" Days,
weeks, months, and years may be wasted in that futile mental debating. You
can never plan enough because you can never anticipate all future
happenings. Always remember, God has His own plan, too for you. Value you
time and do the things that need to be done. It does not matter if you fail
the first time. You can learn from your mistakes and succeed the next time.
Sitting back and worrying will lead to nothing. Learn from your mistakes,
but do not brood over the past. DO NOT REGRET. Whatever happened was
destined to happen only that way. Take it as the Will of God. You do not
have the power to alter the course of God's Will. Why cry over spilt milk?
Friday, July 01, 2005
Love is . . . [01-Jul-2205]
Thursday, June 30, 2005
Love is . . . [30-Jun-2005]
Wednesday, June 29, 2005
Love is . . . [29-Jun-2005]
Tuesday, June 28, 2005
Love is . . . [28-Jun-2005]
Monday, June 27, 2005
Love is . . . [27-Jun-2005]
Wednesday, June 22, 2005
Love is . . . [22-Jun-2005]
Tuesday, June 21, 2005
Love is . . . [21-Jun-2005]
Monday, June 20, 2005
Love is . . . [20-Jun-2005]
Friday, June 10, 2005
Love is . . . [10-Jun-2005]
Thursday, June 09, 2005
Love is . . . [09-Jun-2005]
Wednesday, June 08, 2005
Love is . . . [08-Jun-2005]
Monday, June 06, 2005
Love is . . . [07-June-2005]
Friday, June 03, 2005
Love is . . . [03-June-2005]
Thursday, June 02, 2005
Love is . . . [02-June-2005]
Wednesday, June 01, 2005
Love is . . . [01-June-2005]
Tuesday, May 31, 2005
Love is . . . [31-May-2005]
Monday, May 30, 2005
Love is . . . [30-May-2005]
Friday, May 27, 2005
Love is . . . [27-May-2005]
Thursday, May 26, 2005
Birthdates and Numbers
Love is . . . [26-May-2005]
Hi,
Today's [26-May-2005] Love is . . .
Wednesday, May 25, 2005
Love is . . . [25-May-2005]
Sunday, May 22, 2005
Love is . . . [23-May-2005]
Love is . . . [20-May-2005]
Thursday, May 19, 2005
Love is . . . [19-May-2005]
Tuesday, May 17, 2005
Love is . . . [18-May-2005]
Love is . . . [17-May-2005]
Monday, May 16, 2005
Love is . . . [13th May 2005]
<p><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Hi,</strong></font></p> <div><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>I was very busy and could not send the "Love is . . ." of 13th May 2005<br>Nobody missed it???</strong></font></div> <p><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Well I did and here it is... (I am skipping the 16th May issue though cause 13 is more IMP for me and I don't wanna miss 13th's issue)</strong></font></p> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong> "Making your special one's favorite pony or shaving your hurting beard for your favorite one will surely make the love soft and cosy like cotton and mushy and cute like love (nothing compared to it), isn't it???" </strong></font></div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong></strong></font> </div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong><img src="http://www.niranjanbendre.8m.com/loveis/20041105cplis-a-p.jpg"></strong></font></div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong></strong></font> </div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong></strong></font> </div> <div align="left"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Love n Luck,</strong></font></div> <div align="left"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Niranjan</strong></font></div> <div align="left"><a href="http://www.niranjanbendre.8m.com"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>www.niranjanbendre.8m.com</strong></font></a></div>
Love is . . . [13th May 2005]
<p><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Hi,</strong></font></p> <div><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>I was very busy and could not send the "Love is . . ." of 13th May 2005<br>Nobody missed it???</strong></font></div> <p><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Well I did and here it is... (I am skipping the 16th May issue though cause 13 is more IMP for me and I don't wanna miss 13th's issue)</strong></font></p> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong> "Making your special one's favorite pony or shaving your hurting beard for your favorite one will surely make the love soft and cosy like cotton and mushy and cute like love (nothing compared to it), isn't it???" </strong></font></div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong></strong></font> </div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong><img src="http://www.niranjanbendre.8m.com/loveis/20041105cplis-a-p.jpg"></strong></font></div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong></strong></font> </div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong></strong></font> </div> <div align="left"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Love n Luck,</strong></font></div> <div align="left"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Niranjan</strong></font></div> <div align="left"><a href="http://www.niranjanbendre.8m.com"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>www.niranjanbendre.8m.com</strong></font></a></div>
Love is . . . [13th May 2005]
<p><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Hi,</strong></font></p> <div><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>I was very busy and could not send the "Love is . . ." of [13th May 2005]<br>Nobody missed it???</strong></font></div> <p><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Well I did and here it is... (I am skipping the 16th May issue though cause 13 is more IMP for me and I don't wanna miss 13th's issue)</strong></font></p> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong> "Making your special one's favorite pony or shaving your hurting beard for your favorite one will surely make the love soft and cosy like cotton and mushy and cute like love (nothing compared to it), isn't it???" </strong></font></div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong></strong></font> </div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong><img src="http://www.niranjanbendre.8m.com/loveis/20041105cplis-a-p.jpg"></strong></font></div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong></strong></font> </div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong></strong></font> </div> <div align="left"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Love n Luck,</strong></font></div> <div align="left"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Niranjan</strong></font></div> <div align="left"><a href="http://www.niranjanbendre.8m.com"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>www.niranjanbendre.8m.com</strong></font></a></div>
Thursday, May 12, 2005
Love is . . . [12-May-2005]
Wednesday, May 11, 2005
Love is . . . [11-May-2004]

<div><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Hi,</strong></font></div> <div><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong></strong></font> </div> <div><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Today's [11-May-2004] Love is . . .</strong></font></div> <div><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong></strong></font> </div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>"Wohhh... what a humogous and powerful wave it is nobody can resist it, go againt the flow... everybody will be taken for a wildest rides of their lives..." </strong></font></div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong></strong></font> </div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong><img src="http://www.niranjanbendre.8m.com/loveis/20041103cplis-a-p.jpg"></strong></font></div> <div align="center"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong></strong></font> </div> <div align="left"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Love n Luck,</strong></font></div> <div align="left"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>Niranjan</strong></font></div> <div align="left"><a href="http://www.niranjanbendre.8m.com"><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><strong>www.niranjanbendre.8m.com</strong></font></a></div>
Tuesday, May 10, 2005
Love is . . . [10-May-2005]

<div><strong><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4">Hi,</font></strong></div> <div><strong><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"></font></strong> </div> <div><strong><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4">Today's [10-May-2005] Love is . . .</font></strong></div> <div><strong><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"></font></strong> </div> <div align="center"><strong><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4">"Let not small and worthless things spoil the big and worthy things with your special one... And also do not wait for big moments of happiness even small moments of happiness are good if you keep waiting for bigger moments you will loose those small moments and things which (believe me) gives lots of happiness..." </font></strong></div> <div align="center"><strong><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"></font></strong> </div> <div align="center"><strong><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"><img src="http://www.niranjanbendre.8m.com/loveis/20041102cplis-a-p.jpg"></font></strong></div> <div align="center"><strong><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4"></font></strong> </div> <div align="left"><strong><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4">Love n Luck,</font></strong></div> <div align="left"><strong><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4">Niranjan</font></strong></div> <div align="left"><a href="http://www.niranjanbendre.8m.com"><strong><font face="georgia" color="#ff0000" size="4">www.niranjanbendre.8m.com</font></strong></a></div>
Monday, May 09, 2005
Love is . . . [09-May-2005]

Friday, May 06, 2005
Love is . . . [06-May-2005]

Hi,
Thursday, May 05, 2005
Love is . . . [05-05-05]

Wednesday, May 04, 2005
Love is . . . [04-May-2005]
Tuesday, May 03, 2005
Love is . . . [03-May-2005]

Monday, May 02, 2005
Love is . . . [02-May-2005]

Friday, April 29, 2005
Love is . . . [29-Apr-2005]

Thursday, April 28, 2005
Love is . . . [28-Apr-2005]

Hi,
Today's [28-Apr-2005] Love is . . .
"What your special one thinks is what you say and what you want you are given by your special one! Things are 'smooooooooooooth' even more than the oo's in 'smooth'. Understanding is the key to the best working relationship which makes the love work!!!"
Tuesday, April 26, 2005
Love is . . . [27-Apr-2005]
And the world gets you down
Just remember the one
Who turned your life around
And no one could understand
I will be here waiting
Just to hold your hand
And you feel so alone
You feel so unwanted
In every fiber of your bones
Who told you I cared
The one who promised you
To hold you when you're scared
That you cried together
And somehow just doing that
Made everything seem better
And the darkness doesn't let you see
Just Remember the one who loved you
Just Remember Me . . .
Friday, February 25, 2005
Was very very busy (still not that free) and also very mentally blogged...
Now things are getting fine....
Will be regular for sure now...
Indian Idol is a copy of Americal Idol...
I want to read
1. Chanakya Neeti
2. Autobiography of Charlie Chaplin
3. Listen to "Tum Yaad Aaye" (my best friend gave me that for my b'day)
Rest fine...
ensure blogging comments and reading my blog...